Guest Blogger: Jennifer Prince


Recently I was invited by Venone PR and Off the Beaten Path Weddings to tour Sonoma County‘s wine country with a group of fabulous ladies. We were all connected to the wedding community in some way – bloggers, content creators, writers, magazine owners. It really was refreshing to be around so many people who all crave details and adore the wedding industry. I can’t wait to share more about that trip soon!

When I pack to go away, I love planning what I’m going to wear. For this trip, I received an itinerary with what we would be doing and also what to wear for each day. Perfect! But…when the instructions included terms like “wine country chic” I was left a little bit befuddled. I think a lot of the ladies felt the same way as the days got closer, but…wine country fashion is really easy! Think relaxed, fashionable, and comfortable, and you’ll be good to go. Take a peek at my choices for wine country fashion below.

wine country casual

Whether visiting a farm, learning how to make cheese, or having a cedar enzyme foot soak, this style of casual is breezy and comfortable for a variety of occasions. Pants, a skirt, or a casual dress can all be en vogue for the perfect wine country casual look.

look #1

When I got to California, we hit the ground running, so I packed this outfit in my carry on so that it was within easy reach once we landed. I chose something that was fairly wrinkle free and comfortable, and I added one of my favorite scarves (silk with tassels!). I also am really loving the trend of wearing a beautiful bralette, and this dress is perfect for showing off a bit of lace in the back.

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look 1 photos by charity epperson

look #2

If the itinerary includes a cattle ranch and the great outdoors, wine country fashion is best done in a casual way! I chose to go sleeveless with a peek of color in my bralette paired with one of my favorite denim skirts – it’s both stretchy and comfy. It was a perfect look for navigating the uneven ground and dealing with a bit of dust here and there. I will also fess up and say that the photo in the ATV was just for fun – I didn’t actually get to ride it. But I did get to eat a fresh picked pepper from the garden – yum!

scarf tip – want to incorporate a scarf, but don’t know where? just pop one on your bag! it’s a great way to incorporate a splash of color into your daily look.

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photos for look #2 and the rest of the post by krista lynch

look #3

I know the days are out of order, but this was my parting look! I would be traveling in this outfit on a 5+ hour flight, so I wanted something comfortable and stretchy. These jeans are one of my favorite pairs due to how comfy they are. I actually wore them on the flight out, too – yes, they are that fab. And the meadery was so lovely – it had the perfect light.

scarf tip – i love adding a scarf for color, and draping one around the neck loosely is perfect for a wine country casual look.

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wine country chic

When considering wine country fashion, chic basically settles somewhere in between casual and formal. So, a not-so-dressy dress that is breathable and comfortable is a good piece to invest in when heading to wine country.

Our dinner the last night was one for the books, and it called for wine country chic. I loved the fit and flare of this dress. It’s such a quintessentially feminine piece! The chambray is so versatile, and I paired it with a scarf at the neck to give the neckline just a tad bit more coverage. It was perfect for an upscale evening eating outside with friends.

scarf tip – feeling a bit conscious about cleavage? add a scarf around the neck, and let it hang down a bit to cover your decollete.

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wine country formal

I think the word “formal” got me, but in wine country, formal doesn’t include ballgowns (thankfully!). I opted for comfort and a dress that could be dressed up or down for different occasions. Our dinner was served in a wine cave – so amazing – and the elbow length sleeve kept me warm as the temperature got a bit cooler. In my last solo photo, be sure to notice the hummingbirds that stopped by to say hi. So lovely!

scarf tip – want a bit more pop than a necklace will offer? why not add a scarf tied at the neck? i adore the way the bow looks loosely tied to the side. so fun!

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Gladiola Honors "Year of Gladness" Recipient, Beth McClain

Beth McClain and Her Blessings Barn

Come for Clothes, Leave with Love  

Written By Chloe Ekberg

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It wasn’t a typical afternoon for Beth McClain as we sat down together for her Year of Gladness interview. We spent the day picking out outfits at Gladiola Lifestyle Boutique and taking pictures outside of Beth’s home and her famous “Blessings Barn,” but Miss Beth’s change in routine did not go unnoticed. When Beth got a ride to the store from her friend, she left her car at home—causing a stir in the neighborhood. It was the first time her car was in the driveway and she did not answer the doorbell on the first ring to help neighbors fill their bags with clothes from the Blessings Barn or just catch up and say hello.

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Beth’s Blessing Barn is a well-run operation fueled by Beth McClain in her home. It serves as a place where Beth stores all of her donations so her neighbors can get anything from a winter jacket to toilet paper—but for Beth, the barn was the beginning of years spent investing in others and connecting across differences to form deep-rooted bonds that she refers to as her blessings.

New Beginnings

Beth moved to Lynchburg from Des Moines, Iowa in 2010, three years after her husband died to be near her children and grandchildren. She has lived alone in her house ever since—touching the lives of many through her dedication to fostering unity and love in her neighborhood.

“This is what I was called to do, they need me here and I need them,” Beth says, referring to her neighbors and the Blessings Barn.

While Beth is now considered to be a local celebrity on her street—waving and calling each one of her neighbors by name between pictures for our shoot, she admits things weren’t always the way they are today.

When Beth first moved into her house, her friends and family raised concerns over her being the only widowed white woman living alone in the neighborhood, so her son went next door to tell the neighbor to keep an eye out for her.

“Every time I’d go outside he’d come up to me and ask ‘are you okay,’ and I’d say I’m fine. I knew he was just doing his job,” Beth says.  

Beth then recalled the first time she and her neighbor really made a connection that would change the rest of her life.

“One day I was watching my neighbor from the window by my kitchen sink, collecting beer cans, and I decided to just go out and say, hi.  That’s when my neighbor’s son-in-law looked at me and said, ‘I’m surprised you’re even talking to us.’”

Beth smiled at me as she continued to reminisce on that moment.

“And I looked at him and said, ‘well, why not?’ Just because our skin is a different color doesn’t mean we are not the same on the inside. That’s when my neighbor looked me in the eyes and said, ‘You’re going to be okay here, and I’m going to tell everyone that you are okay.’”

That was the beginning. The woman once viewed by the neighbors as a “plant” or a “snitch” (who many believed moved to the neighborhood to report illegal activity) became an essential aspect of the community and a friend to all.

“I just knew that if I was going to live here with all of this different culture and everything, I had to be friendly. I had to let people know that I am not above them. So, that’s what I did. I just loved them,” Beth said.

How the Blessings Barn Began

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At around the same time that Beth was getting to know her new neighbors she was attending Cathy and Garland Hoare's Sunday school at Thomas Road Baptist Church. After her Sunday school group finished a book, they gathered around to decide on an outreach project. Beth knew her neighbor across the street at the time who didn’t have much. Beth told her group, “I know someone we can help!”

Beth and her Sunday school class gathered up a van full of clothes, food, and other essentials and gave them all to her neighbor.

The next time Beth’s Sunday school group had to come up with an outreach project Beth had another family she had grown close to in her neighborhood in mind.

 From then on it became clear that this would turn into a much larger scale commitment for Beth than helping one or two families. In fact, Beth’s home became a rotating storage unit—with items constantly going in and out of her house to be donated to local families whom she had gotten to know.

 As Beth’s commitment to helping the families around her grew, Gerry and Cathy Kimble and her Sunday school class decided to surprise her with an outside shed—which she later named “Beth’s Blessings Barn.”

 “I call it Beth’s Blessings Barn because it looks like a barn and I was blessed to have so many people donating to the barn—and all the people around here get blessings. People can come any time. All they have to do is knock on my door.”

A Day in The Life of Beth McClain

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 On an average day, Beth can be found on her front porch, lifting bags of donations and sorting them in her living room before they are moved to the Blessings Barn. Beth jokes that she has gotten stronger over the years both inside and out taking on this project.

Beth’s friend Tina Markham notes, “Beth can lift bags better than anyone else. It’s a workout for certain.”

When Beth isn’t sorting through donations or planning her next outreach event at her home, she’s usually spending quality time with her neighbors. Whether it’s driving them to doctor’s appointments and grocery stores or just welcoming families into her home for coffee. Beth’s neighbors are her life. Beth even hosts a Bible study with the Hoare family from her church for anyone who does not have transportation to get to a church. Some weeks she will have around 20 people all sitting down in her living room.

“Beth has a special gift of bringing people together and loving them for who they are. It’s a gift that any neighborhood could benefit from,” says Tina Markham, a good friend from Beth’s church.

 Though people from all walks of life may come to the Blessings Barn for clothing, they leave with something much more meaningful because of the connections Beth has taken the time to make. Beth is a great reminder of the beauty that comes from seeing life from someone else’s perspective. If we, too, view others a little more like Beth does—the world would be a little "gladder".